Thursday 13 June 2013

June 14 - Two Year Surgiversary!!!!!




Today marks two years since I had my Gastric Bypass surgery. It has literally changed my life. I went from a 360 pound woman who could barely walk up a flight of stairs, somone who avoided booths at resturants becasue I wouldnt fit, who wouldnt sit on the floor, not only because I wouldn't be able to get back up but because I couldnt even figure how to get down! Someone who had trouble getting in and out of bed, who took a taxi to work everyday when it takes me 5 minutes to walk there - yes I was that lazy. Someone who missed out on all the fun stuff with my kids because I was too afraid of getting tired. I hated what I looked like because I ate so much and I ate so much because if what I looked like. Someone who had no self esteem.




In the past two years I have watched my weight go down and my self esteem go up. I have done things I never would have even fathomed doing before. I completed a 5km, 10km and a half marathon. One of the proudest moments of my life that I was able to share with my sister Kristy.I took my daughter to a theme park and was able to fit on all of the rides. I joined a gym and stuck with it, seeing a trainer multiple times a week. Accomplishing things that the week before I wasnt able to do.


Little things like jumping out of bed in the mornings,  crossing my legs, going shopping and being able to fit in just about everything I tried on. Liking what I saw when people took pictures of me, wearing a baithing suit and not caring what people thought.

There have been complications along the way, sacrifices that had to be made. Lots of tears and frustrations.... But would I do it over? Absolutely.  Some people out there believe that having surgery is the easy way out and that we dont lose weight the right way. HA! This was the hardest thing I have ever done. From the day I decided to have it done until today, two years later. Everyday I have to work at it, physically, mentally and emotionally.

I am so thankful for my husband and children who have put up with me and encouraged me everyday. Thank you for putting up with my whinning and complaining when i ate something I shouldn't and felt sick, and for understanding and giving me the time I needed at the gym to better myself!!!! And for all of my family, friends, co workers and online support who keep me accountable and love me no matter what.I have gone from 360 pounds at my highest, to 334 pounds at the time of surgery to 182 pounds as of today. I have lost 178 pounds in just over 2 years. Almost HALF of me!!!!!!!!  




I have my life back. Gastric bypass is a gift and I will be forever thankful for it!!

Wednesday 22 May 2013

May 22/13 - Almost 2 years later...

So next month will be 2 years since I had my surgery. I can't believe that it's been that Long already, and I can't believe it's been so long since my last post! I guess I've been too busy living my life ;)

So much has happened in the past year... I don't know where to start!  Last September I started working out at a gym. I was matched up with a personal trainer Jenna who I started seeing 3 times a week. In 7 months she kicked my butt and pushed me to do things I never thought possible!!! Every week I was finding that I could do things I couldn't do the week before :)  I started to find muscles on my body that I NEVER had before lol   
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Unfortunately the gym I was at closed down so now I am at another one. I'm still going at least 3 times a week and I've joined a BodyPump class which is so much fun! I've developed a bit of a running shoe and workout clothing obsession lol but I guess it could be worse :)

My son and I are doing a 10km walk-a-thon this weekend... I've been doing ALoT of walking over the past few months.... I've been training to do a half marathon with my sister Kristy which is next weekend! I'm super nervous but so excited to do it!!!

I've been able to maintain my weight... Which makes me so happy. I know I've gained muscle and lost fat which has made me stay at the same weight but I've also gone down in inches!!! At this point I'm more than happy to stay where I am for the rest of my life! My batwings are a bit more toned than before but I'm still thinking about the possibility of some skin surgeries in the future.  
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My eating habits haven't changed too much... I do find that some days I can eat quite a bit (but still next to nothing compared to what I use to eat) and then there are days when I can't get more than a few bites in at a time.  I've started to enjoy green shakes... Still watching my protein.  

I have developed an ulcer which is not fun but something I was aware could be a possibility with this surgery. It's under control now thankfully with medication. I'm trying to stick with my vitamins.. But even two years out I have a hard time keeping up with them. 

I think one of my favorite things about being on this journey is being able to talk to others who are just starting and sharing my experiences. I know how thankful I was to people who helped me at the beginning!!! I have made SO many friends, online and in person. The support group that I am surrounded with is just phenomenal!!!   

I love my life and the energy I now have. I was given a second chance and I don't plan on screwing it up!!!

Sunday 17 June 2012

One year Surgiversary :)

Friday was my one year anniversary of my Gastric Bypass surgery. I've been trying to find the right way to express what this year has meant to me but it's so hard to put into words! 

I can't believe how fast a year can go by! I remember how slow time went while I was waiting for my surgery. I spent so many hours researching it and talking to people who had it done. I remember looking longingly at other peoples before and after pictures wishing it was me... And now I have my own :) 

I have lost 155 pounds. I am no longer obese according to the BMI (now I am just over weight.) but I'll take that over super morbidly obese any day!!! I have reached my surgeons goal and I am 4 pounds away from my personal goal that I set for myself last year but I'm pretty happy where I'm at right now! 

 Before Pic - May 2011 - 334 pounds
After Pic - June 2012 - 180 pounds



It has been a LONG HARD year full of ups and downs... An emotional roller coaster you might say. There were many times when I thought I made the wrong choice because I was so sick. Times when I mourned the food I couldn't eat and times when I envied my family for the foods they could.  

Once I had my gall bladder taken out though, I started to feel better and realized that was most of the reason I was so sick. I felt much happier after that and my attitude changed for the better.   I have done so many things this past year that I never would have if I hadn't had RNY.  I have met so many wonderful people... Some in person, some online. The Bariatric Bad Girls Club has been amazing online support for me and through them I have made so many new friends. Ive said it before but its so nice to know that there are people out there who know EXACTLY what you are going through.  I got a tattoo to show that I will be a Bariatric Bad Girl for life :)



I'm more active then I have ever been. I never would have walked 10km before and I did it last month with my daughter without even breaking a sweat :)  My confidence has grown so much. 

I stand taller and take more pride in my appearance.  
Although I am finding it hard to lose the big girl mind frame!  I still buy clothes that are too big ( I am trying to learn to try things on).  I also still pull my seat belt out as far as possible hoping it will do up even though I know it will, and I still suck in and try to squeeze by people when there is at least 3 feet between us because I still think I'll bump them! And I still avoid sitting on plastic chairs and stools because I think I will break them lol 

I am dealing with the consequences of rapid weight loss and all of the loose skin. I don't like how my body looks but I can say I'm getting used to it.  When all is said and done I am happier now floppy skin and all :) 

I know I have repeated myself a few times here but I just wanted to recap everything.  I am not perfect and I have made mistakes. This is an on going learning process and I still have to take it one day at a time. I still eat too fast.. Sometimes too much and not always the right choices.. But I pay for it and I learn from it and I try to do better.  

I know my weight loss journey isn't over... Really just beginning but I couldn't have even gotten this far without my family and friends and their never ending support.   

I am so lucky to be surrounded by love and I am so thankful for this second chance. 

Tuesday 29 May 2012

May 29/12 - 10K Walkathon

On Sunday my daughter Kayla and I participated in the Easter Seals Run/Walkathon in Newmarket. We signed up for the 10K Walk and I cant believe I did.  Its something I never would have done a year ago!!!

 Here we are all ready to go.  We were Team Epic Dollface :)  We were really lucky with the weather.  It wasn't too hot and it didn't thunderstorm like they said it would!  

When we got to the half way mark, Kayla was saying that her feet hurt really bad.  I told her if she wanted we could turn around and go back.  She told me that we already came this far so we had to finish.  She said it didn't matter even if we were last place, as long as we did it.  We had my IPOD and she played the song "Push It" by Salt n Pepper to motivate us to keep going.

We did it, in just over two hours... and we were not last place (although we were close lol) but it didn't matter. I have never been so proud of my daughter.  She amazes me everyday with her talents and this was no exception.  We crossed that finish line and received our medals with a smile on our face.
 We couldn't walk for the rest of the day and were dead tired.. my legs still hurt but I wouldn't have it any other way!  A great walk for a great cause and I'm so glad I was able to be a part of it!!!

Sunday 6 May 2012

May 6/12 - Happy Birthday to Me :)

It's crazy to think how much difference one year can make, but when I look back at my birthday last year and how far I've come since then... Crazy.  

This time last year I was a month away from my gastric bypass, so excited to finally be close to having it done.  



Now.  If I knew then all that I know now... Would I still have done it??? For a long time my answer was no. But now after Almost a year, I know I made the right choice for me even if has been more difficult than I could've ever imagined!!  

My life has completely changed in so many ways, and on so many levels some days it doesn't feel real. The way people treat me is different, the way I feel about myself. I have so much more energy, and I'm doing things that I never would've even considered last year! Riding a bike, joining a gym ( and still going after 4 months!)  wearing dresses and cutting my hair off!!!!   I'm going to be doing a 10 km walk-a-thon at the end of the month that I'm really looking forward to!   

My husband has always loved me, but we have become south closer through this and I love him so much for his continued support!! 

I'm now at a new crossroad on my journey.  And that is dealing with all off the extra skin. I never imagined it could be as bad as it is. I wasn't planing on having plastics done to remove the skin but I know I wont feel comfortable if I don't at least address my arms... 

So I have devised a plan to raise money for the much needed skin removal!  I have started to sell my crocheted cozies and hats.. And I have actually saved quite a bit of money so far! I don't know of its because people feel sorry for me or if they really like my stuff ;) but either way.. It's working! And I love doing it. It has been amazing for me. Keeps me relaxed and keeps my mind focused and busy and away from the fridge :) ( although sometimes I forget to eat all together!!). 



My husband bought me the most beautiful dresser to hold all of my yarn and supplies.. Best birthday present ever! 

I am feeling extremely blessed for all that I have. Happy Birthday to me :)

Monday 9 April 2012

April 9/12 - Onederland

I have spent the last week in Stirling with my mom and dad because my grandmother pasted away last Sunday.  She was waiting for her ride to Church and she had a heart attack.  She was 82 years old.  The funeral was on Wednesday, the second one I had been to in two weeks.

It was really hard for me to watch my mother and all of my Aunts, Uncles and cousins while they were so upset.  I wish I had been able to know her better.. we didn't meet until I was 18 years old.  I am very thankful for the memories that we did have.  

In the days following the funeral though, I heard so many funny, touching stories about her and my family.  I couldn't get enough of going through the old family pictures and I was just soaking it all in!! I felt very privileged to have known her at all, and I am so thankful for my family.


Staying with my parents is my favorite place in the world to be.  Its where I got married, its where all of my childrens summer memories are made.  It makes me feel safe and relaxed, something that was very much welcomed this week!
Eating when you are away is hard enough after Gastric Bypass... but eating while away, while you are emotional.. and while it is Easter weekend.. is near impossible!!!!  I had a few slips, felt sick a few times, but over all I believe I did pretty darn good! I wasn't able to check my weight the whole time I was gone, so by the time I got home I was dying to know how much I was!


I stepped on the scale this morning and this is what I saw:




Thats right... ONEDERLAND!!!!  I have gone from 334lbs to 198lbs in 10 months :)  I couldn't be happier, and if I was to stay at this weight for the rest of my life I would be content!




Also I have nothing but wonderful things to say about crocheting!  I love it, and my mother-in-law recently taught me a new technique that I like, and I learned how to make headbands, and flowers! (thank you YouTube!)



Wednesday 28 March 2012

March 28/12 - Struggling

I haven't blogged in a few weeks.  Mostly because I have been away from the computer but also because I wasn't sure how to write about this. 

On March 9th my brother-in-law Brady was in a horrific train accident. My husband and I spent a week in London with his parents and brother while Brady was in a coma. On March 15th, Brady was taken off life support and passed away.

It was one of the most devastating and trying weeks of our lives. It was so hard to watch my husband and his family go through this.. My heart still breaks for them, especially my mother-in-law.  I know first hand what it is like to lose a child... Even though it was different ... I know that hurt.  I wish there was something I could do or say to take their pain away or at least make it less.. But I know there are no words.  

My sister Kristy and my brother-in-law Brian were such an amazing help while we were in London. They opened their home to us, had many late night talks with us and sat with us while we cried. My nephew Jackson was the best medicine for our sadness and repeatedly cheered us up. I am so thankful to have such a loving family. 

I just want to say that Mike and his family are one of the strongest families I know. Even through making some unbelievably hard decisions, and being there with Brady while they took him off life support... They were strong. Through the process of planning a funeral and saying goodbye... They were so strong. I have so much love and respect for them and I am so thankful they allowed me to be there with them through this no matter  how hard it was. 

I also wanted to say thank you for the crazy amount of love and support that was given to the family and myself over the past few weeks. It was truly overwhelming and so appreciated!

CHEERS BRADY <3


I struggled the past few weeks with my eating. I found it hard to get all of my protein in (hospital food) but more than that... I found myself wanting my comfort food. 

My husband may get mad for giving this analogy but when he is stressed or in a situation like that he tends to drink to help relax him. I am not much of a drinker.   Though I never considered myself an emotional eater.. I did tend to gravitate towards certain foods in stressful situations but since having gastric bypass I no longer have the ability to comfort myself through food. I did try a few times to be honest.. One day I had a bowl of soup and I forced down a whole tea biscuit... Which did not end well... 

There were a few times that I ended up making myself sick over the wrong choices. I was hard for me mentally to deal with what was happening so I tried to focus on my husband and family and tried to make  sure they were eating and doing alright.   In the future I am defiantly going to have to find a better way of coping!!!

I was away from the gym again for almost two weeks, and I'm finding it harder and harder to get back into the routine every time I get out of it.. And that was what I was afraid of when I started!  

Even though I am still losing, it has slowed down so much and I am fighting with these last 3 pound to push me under 200.  I've gone back to making my lunches and trying really hard to get my vitamins and protein in... Heading to the gym today after work so I'm hoping to break this stall ASAP!

I went to the dentist last week, and I had a bit of a breakdown in the office. It turns out that I have extreme bone loss in my teeth due to gastric bypass. It was explained to me that I am like a patient with Lupus. My body is low on nutrients, it is trying to take them from where ever it can.. Including my teeth. 

I have a doctors appointment tomorrow for blood work etc, and another dentist appointment on Friday for more X-rays and lord know what else. I'm very nervous to say the least. 

It's been a long road... And continues to be. I am ecstatic about losing so much weight... But there sure is a lot more that goes along with it. 

Tuesday 6 March 2012

March 6/12 - CBPSO

I received a phone call this morning that totally made my whole day!  One of the ladies from my support group Patrina, asked me if I would like to be on the board for the CBPSO, which is the the Community of Bariatric Patients of Southern Ontario.  They are putting on the Second Annual Southern Ontario Meet & Greet this October in Sarnia and I am so excited to be part of the planning!!!   It really does feel great to be a part of something, especially something that is so important to me!
I am so excited to get started helping in anyway I can, and super excited to meet up with the ladies in a few weeks in London, where I will also get to spend a bit of time with my sister, brother-in-law and nephew!


The other exciting news is that I signed up for the EasterSeals 10K Run/Walkathon on May 27th.  I registered as Team Dollface and Im hoping to get a bunch of friends to walk with me.  




Its for a great cause.. to help children with physical disabilities and its a great work out!  I'm hoping it will also keep me motivated to work out and train for the event.. even though I am more active now than I have been in years.. its been a LONG TIME since I have walked 10K!!!  I'm even hoping to jog a bit of it... but that's where the training will come in!  Anyone who would like to walk with me, or pledge our team.. send me an email: kaylaewan@gmail.com  The more the merrier!!!


I also wanted to mention that my crocheting is coming along nicely!  Im just about done a wonderful scarf that matches my jacket (now that winter is almost over lol)




Tomorrow I am going to tackle the granny square!!!  It really does take my mind off food, and it keeps my hands busy!  I was at Michaels the other day and went a little yarn crazy, so I have lots of projects in my near future!

Friday 2 March 2012

March 2/12 - Oh my knees!!!!

I find it so hard to understand why when I was over 300 pounds my knees were fine, but now that I'm almost half that my knees are killing me :(  I always had issues with my lower back, hips and feet.. but my knees were fine. In the past month the pain is really really bad at times.  I know it may be because I'm working out, and walking so much but I thought that should help me feel better not make it worse!  Hopefully it will work itself out!  I'm so happy to be back working out, I hate that my knees are slowing me down.. especially with Zumba... but I will work through the pain!!!  Here is a picture that a friend sent me, and anyone who has done Zumba can identify with this !!!



When I was at Curves this morning I ran into my Grade School bus driver.  You know how there are those people that you meet that just really leave an impression on you?  She was one of those people.  She would drive us from Mount Albert to Stouffville Christian School and back everyday for years... 45 minutes each way.  I used to have severe bus sickness on a weekly basis, and she never got mad!  She would give us pizza parties on the bus for Christmas and Easter etc, and would play music.  She had a lot of patience that's for sure! It was really nice to have the chance, 20 years later how much I appreciated her and how she was my favorite bus driver!

For years and years I have wanted to learn how to knit and crochet.  I finally decided it was time after a lady from my support group was posting pictures of the things that she was making.  So my son and I went to Michaels and bought yarn, knitting needles, crochet hooks, and paint by numbers. I looked it up on Youtube how to crochet and it was much easier than I thought it would be!  (at least the beginner stuff lol) 



I have also found that it is a great distraction!  Lately, I have been guilty of mindless snacking in the evenings.  I am so good all day long but when I get home from work I want to snack (not on bad things but just on food in general)  I know I'm not hungry at all.. its just old habits strung from boredom.  But if I keep my hands and mind busy, that doesn't happen!  So crocheting, knitting and painting seem to be working.  Its good to have a hobby!!! Its also made the kids interested so its fun that we can do it together. 



I posted some pictures of my progress, and I cant believe how many of my friends are into knitting etc!  I guess we are the next generation of the sewing circle!  I suggested we should start up a knitting club.. who knows ;)










Monday 27 February 2012

Feb 27/12 - Good Times, Good Times...

I've been back to the gym now for a week and I'm sooo happy to be there! The first day was brutal but by the second I was feeling much more like myself.  It's probably the best stress reliever I've ever had and when I'm done a workout I feel so relaxed. I highly recommend it!!

So a few days ago my husband and I ordered thai food. It's my special treat that we get once in a blue moon and I've been fine with it. But for some reason it DID NOT agree with me and boy o boy did I ever dump!! I don't know if it has to do with the lack of gallbladder... But I will now be crossing Thai food off my list. Someone made a comment and it totally applie to me that day... And many others:

My stomach sounds like I swallowed Chewbacca.

I find that once something makes me dump I have no desire to have it again!!! At least it's good to know that my pouch is still working!  There are times when it doesn't even feel like I've had surgery. 

My husband had his 25th Birthday party on the weekend and what a blast! We had such a great time and soo many of our friends came out to share it with us. It was one of the best nights I've had in a really really long time. I had 3 drinks that night (crystal light mixed with a little vodka) Only 50 calories per drink. 

The problem was that I had all three drinks within the first hour or so. I was feeling pretty tipsy so I stopped drinking and for the rest of the night stuck to just crystal light. I was glad I did and I still had just as much fun as if I was drinking! I hate the feeling of being out of control and anyone who has had the gastric bypass can tell you how fast that can happen!! One glass of wine and I'm slurring my words and can't walk straight!!!!

Everyone seemed to have a great time though and my house came through unscathed !! Nothing broken and no drama... I may consider doing it again sometime... Maybe next year lol even though I stopped drinking... I'm way to old to be staying up till 4am.  I'm still feeling the effects of it!



I can't even express enough how kind everyone was and how grateful I am for all the wonderful things they were saying to me about my weight loss. I know I've touched on this topic before but I still find it so awkward !! As much as I really do love to hear it and it means so much... I don't know how to respond without blushing and looking away. I say thank you but i don't want to come across conceited...  It actually makes me embarrassed.  People tell me I'll get used to it but I'm not so sure!

I'm really liking the fact that I've been able to pre make my meals for the week. It's been a god send!  Keeps me from worrying about how much protein I need and how much I've eaten. Everything is cooked and measured in the fridge. Stress free!

The other thing that has been a godsend to me is my iPhone !  Being able to listen to music... Not only can it be inspiring and uplifting but it makes me WANT to walk places!  And I've been downloading really fast songs with a good beat... It makes me walk even faster!! One of the songs I've been in love with lately is "I'm Not Afraid" by Eminem. Even though he has a bit of a potty mouth I feel like I can connect with many parts. 

[Chorus:]
I'm not afraid (I'm not afraid)
To take a stand (to take a stand)
Everybody (everybody)
Come take my hand (come take my hand)
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just lettin you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel like you've been down the same road (same road)

[Intro (during Chorus):]
Yeah, it's been a ride
I guess I had to, go to that place, to get to this one
Now some of you, might still be in that place
If you're trying to get out, just follow me
I'll get you there

You could try and read my lyrics off of this paper before I lay 'em
But you won't take the sting out these words before I say 'em
Cause ain't no way I'ma let you stop me from causin mayhem
When I say I'ma do somethin I do it,
I don't give a damn what you think,
I'm doin this for me, so fuck the world
Feed it beans, it's gassed up, if it thinks it's stoppin me
I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony
No if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he
From "Infinite" down to the last "Relapse" album
he's still shittin, whether he's on salary paid hourly
Until he bows out or he shits his bowels out of him
Whichever comes first, for better or worse
He's married to the game, like a fuck you for Christmas
His gift is a curse, forget the Earth, he's got the urge
to pull his dick from the dirt, and fuck the whole universe

[Chorus]

Okay quit playing with the scissors and shit, and cut the crap
I shouldn't have to rhyme these words in the rhythm for you to know it's a rap
You said you was king, you lied through your teeth, for that
Fuck your feelings, instead of gettin crowned you're gettin capped
And to the fans, I'll never let you down again, I'm back
I promise to never go back on that promise, in fact
Let's be honest, that last "Relapse" CD was ehhh
Perhaps I ran them accents into the ground
Relax, I ain't goin back to that now
All I'm tryin to say is get back, click-clack, blaow
Cause I ain't playin around
It's a game called circle and I don't know how, I'm way too up to back down
But I think I'm still tryin to figure this crap out
Thought I had it mapped out but I guess I didn't, this fuckin black cloud
still follows, me around but it's time to exorcise these demons
These motherfuckers are doin jumpin jacks now!

[Chorus]

And I just can't keep living this way
So starting today, I'm breaking out of this cage
I'm standing up, I'ma face my demons
I'm manning up, I'ma hold my ground
I've had enough, now I'm so fed up
Time to put my life back together right now! (now)

It was my decision to get clean, I did it for me
Admittedly, I probably did it subliminally
for you, so I could come back a brand new me you helped see me through
And don't even realize what you did, believe me you
I been through the ringer, but they could do little to the middle finger
I think I got a tear in my eye, I feel like the king of
my world, haters can make like bees with no stingers
and drop dead, no more beef flingers
No more drama from now on, I promise
to focus solely on handlin my responsibilities as a father
So I solemnly swear to always treat this roof, like my daughters
and raise it, you couldn't lift a single shingle on it!
Cause the way I feel, I'm strong enough to go to the club
or the corner pub, and lift the whole liquor counter up
Cause I'm raising the bar
I'd shoot for the moon but I'm too busy gazin at stars
I feel amazing

[Chorus]

Tuesday 21 February 2012

Feb 21/12 - Happy Days :)

It was my daughters 11th  birthday yesterday so we had a big party for her Sunday night. We took her and 8 of her friends to the movies and then she had a few friends sleep over. It was a long night but better than I expected it to be! Thankfully I had my husband there to help... I'm so glad he came!  I'm still in awe of how I fit into the seats at the movies... Makes me smile every time.   

Also I went to the bank last weekend and the cashier asked me if I had a sister who worked with me at Stinger.. LoL she didn't realize it was me :) Thats starting to happen quite a bit now and it makes me laugh. Its a good motivator !!!

I'm finally headed back to the gym tomorrow and I'm super excited about it!  It's been too long and I'm glad to be back into my routine. 

I cooked up a storm yesterday... Made homemade ground turkey pasta sauce and used spaghetti squash instead of actual spaghetti.  It was so good!  I made my meals for the week and it's nice to be prepared and not have to worry about what I'm going to eat last minute. 

Tomorrow is my husbands 25th birthday ( yes I know I'm a cradle robber lol) We're having a big party for him on Saturday.. He deserves it so much!! I can't wait to spend a night with all of our friends.. Ive become a bit of a hermit since my surgery and I miss being around friends.  (plus I bought a new outfit that I can't wait to wear :)

I checked out my BMI today...Even though I don't really think the guidelines are realistic I was curious. 
My starting BMI was 56 which put me in the super morbidly obese category.  My BMI is now 34 which puts me in the Class 1 Obese category.  Once I hit 29 I'll be just overweight. I think it's ridiculous that they think a heathy weight for me is 130 pounds. Never gonna happen!!!

But regardless.... Going down 22 points it's pretty awesome. 

Even though I have lost ALMOST half the woman I was... I feel like I have become twice the woman I never thought I could be. ....

If that makes any sense at all. 
( it did in my head)

Now that I am feeling more like myself... It's a lot easier to be motivated and excited about the future. 

Bring it on. 

Tuesday 14 February 2012

Feb 14/12 - Happy Valentine's Day !!

I am so lucky to have the love in my life that I do. From my children and husband... To my family and friends. I know a lot of people think Valentines Day is silly and just another excuse to spend money but I don't think there is anything wrong with showing a little extra love once in a while!!!

Today also marks the 8 month anniversary of my Gastric Bypass. Today I am down 124 pounds. I have gone from 334 lbs to 210 lbs. and I am pretty proud of that!!!



I know I have been down lately but I think I was just mostly off because of my surgery and infection. I'm feeling much more optimistic and back to my old self!  I have my OA meeting on Thursday AND my first day back at the gym in three weeks! I can't wait to get back into my routine. I've really missed the gym... It's become my stress reliever!! 

I just wanted to share a picture of my most favorite thing to do these days lol something I try to do as much as possible now that I can do it again ;)


Thank you for bearing with me and listening to my rants.  I couldn't do this without all of your love and support!!!

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Monday 13 February 2012

Feb 13/12 - On the bright side...

I'm happy to say that I am finally feeling better. I'm still a bit off and definitely still healing but the antibiotics are doing their job for sure!

I decided to do some retail therapy the other day and it really does work! I felt so much better after even though the pants and top that I bought were too big!  I really need to start trying things on in the store!! Such a bad habit that I've always had. 

And then I was able to open my Valentines Day presents early on Saturday since I have to work all day tomorrow. My husband bought me a beautiful watch and a Coach wallet and flowers.  I'm super spoiled!
 We had a great evening and spent some time with friends. It was really nice to get out for a bit.  I was even ok when they ordered late night Chinese food.. I just had a few nibbles of my husbands broccoli. 

Last night I went to the movies with some friends to see "The Vow" a very sappy Valentines Day movie lol  I enjoyed it and it was crazy how much my husband is like Channing Tatum in the movie... How someone can love me as much as he does... Amazing. And I VOW never to take that love for granted ;)

While I was there I thought I would be so good and not get popcorn or anything carby... So I just got a non fat, no sugar frozen yogurt   I thought it would be a good option but apparently not!  

I spent about a half hour in the bathroom when I got home having come back out of both ends!!!  I think I'll go back to bringing my own snacks to the movies!!!!

I'm still having a lot of emotional issues surrounding my weight loss but I'm really trying to stay positive and remember why I did it in the first place. I have decided to join Overeaters Anonymous.  I think being in a support group and dealing with the emotional aspects.. not just focusing on the weightloss and numbers will help.  

One of the ladies from the Bariatric Bad Girls Club named Carla posted this saying the other day: 

WLS: because we want quality not quantity. 

Straight to the point and I couldn't have said it better myself!!!!

Saturday 11 February 2012

Feb 11/12 - Ultrasounds, X-rays, I.Vs ... Oh My!!

So Wednesday night around 7 pm I started to have really bad sharp pains in my abdomen... At first I thought it was from my dinner because I had just finished some salad and I thought it wasn't sitting right. When the pain was still there at 8 I started to get worried. I couldn't breathe or talk without it hurting.  I laid on the couch and tried not to make a big deal out of it because I didn't want the kids to worry. 

When the pain was worse by 9pm I knew I had to go back to the hospital. I didn't want to risk it this time.  I snuck out while the kids were in bed ( thankfully Mike was home)

It was a very busy night in the ER. I signed in and got "fast tracked" to the Yellow Zone along with about 50 other people!  My heart sank when I saw everyone. 

I was in more pain than I thought was possible... Even after Gastic and having my Gallbladder out.  

After about an hour I was brought in to see the nurse, who did my blood work etc, and put an IV in my arm which was hooked up to nothing lol I asked her how long she thought it would be before seeing the doctor and she said "you saw everyone out there right? I don't wanna lie to you"

So I was sent back out to the waiting room where I had to sit beside this woman who was talking non stop and eating a sub which was making me so nauseous!  I was writhing in pain and on the verge of tears and finally at midnight they brought me into a room to wait for the doctor. It was still another hour though before he came in to see me. When he did he told me they would get me some pain meds and send me for some X-rays. 

The nurse (who by the way was absolutely amazing the whole night.. I really wish I could remember her name!!) hooked up my IV and gave me some gravol and morphine.  She had to flush my IV first because I had gone so long with nothing in it.. It hurt real bad. 

It took about another hour before the meds started to kick in a bit to take the edge off. They wanted to get me comfortable before sending me for X-rays. I just wanted to get it over with.  I had the worst time trying to get undressed while hooked up to the IV. It was very hard to maneuver!  They took about 5 X-rays and sent me back to the room. 

I was in so much pain and I honestly couldn't understand why. The nurse gave me so much morphine but for some reason it wasn't working and at about 3am they switched it to something much stronger and that did the trick!  

They ended up keeping me for the night because they wanted me to go for a ultrasound first thing in the morning.  So I spent the night in a chair hopped up on pain meds sleeping for about 10 minutes at a time. Not a good night. 

Thankfully my mother-in-law was able to come over in the morning to make sure the kids got to school ok since Mike had to go to work. 

They finally sent me for the ultrasound around 9:30am... So by this time it had been more than 14 hours since I had anything to eat or drink.  Two different ladies poked and proded my belly from all angles. I was so out of it I couldn't even walk on my own and they had me in a wheelchair. 

They sent me back to the room to wait for the doctor again. At 11:30 he came in to tell me what I already knew. I have an infection in my navel.. In the incision from my gallbladder surgery.  He said that is what brought on the pain and that is what is causing the hard lump and the "leakage". He prescribed me some antibiotics and some more T3s (I now have a lifetime supply) and finally discharged me. 

I was lucky that my boss was right up the road and very kindly offered to give me a ride home. I spent the whole day sleeping and I finally feel better. I do have to say that the antibiotics are big and gross and smell like cat pee and I have to take 4 a day. 

I'm pretty sick and tired of being sick and tired. And I'm so scared to eat. I'm nervous that everything is going to make me sick and cause me pain. 

I go to see my doctor next week for my follow up. I hope he has some answers for me.  

Sunday 5 February 2012

Feb 5/12 - Down and out.

Yesterday I got the chance to spend the day with most of my brothers and sisters .. ( by most I mean 5 out of 8) and of course my brothers and sisters in law, my nieces and nephews and my mom and step dad.  I love being surround by family. It's such a safe comfortable feeling. I just wish we could do it more often!

It's a constant non stop chatter that only someone in our family could handle for more than a few hours!!

There were lots of questions about how I'm doing after my gallbladder surgery.. And how I'm feeling in general. 

I don't know why... Maybe because I was with my mother and sisters... But I broke down crying. I think I'm a little overwhelmed with my life right now and it all came out last night. 

I don't know if I'm depressed or just tired or still worn out from surgery but something is off with me lately. I've been very emotional and hard on myself. I'm starting to really dislike my body and the horrible amounts of sagging jiggly skin. Knowing that reconstructive surgery may be out of my reach for a very long time... If not forever... Doesn't give me much hope for feeling better about it either. 

I wanted this sooo bad. I was so determined to rock my WLS and show everyone how great it is and how well I've done... But it's so hard to keep up with myself sometimes. I'm still losing weight... Im down 117 pounds in less than 8 months.  I'm still getting my protein in and trying to take all of my vitamins ( a daily struggle in itself) but I feel like I've failed mentally and emotionally.  I can't get the fat girl out of my head. 

I'm tired. Life gets in the way. I have so much stress at home... And I think I may be breaking a bit. 

Don't get me wrong. I don't regret doing this. Everything happens for a reason and I believe that completely but my mom asked me last night if I would do it again... And I said no. Now if she had asked me next week on a good day.. Maybe my answer would be yes. So take everything I say with a grain of salt because it could just be my emotions talking!

It's hard to talk about this because everyone thinks I'm doing great and I don't want to disappoint them. Especially people who have had the surgery. We look at Gastric Bypass like we've been given a gift, which we have and I don't want them to think that I'm ungrateful.  I think I just wasn't  as prepared for all the changes and hurdles that have happened so fast as I thought I was!!